You know how some things just stick with you from childhood? For me, it was Bobby Sherman. That dreamy smile, the shaggy hair, and that voice on Here Come the Brides—he was basically the 1970s equivalent of a Taylor Swift concert. But as you get older, you start wondering about the real stuff. Like, how many times did this guy actually walk down the aisle?

The First Trip Down the Aisle

Bobby Sherman got married for the first time in 1971, which in pop-star years is basically ancient history. He married a woman named Patti Carnel, and for a while, they were the picture-perfect couple. Think of it like your first car: you love it, you polish it, but eventually, you realize it’s not built for the long haul.

That marriage lasted about eight years, which is honestly a lifetime in Hollywood. They had a son, Christopher, and a daughter, Tyler. But by 1979, the engine sputtered out. Divorce. It happens. It’s like when you and your college roommate finally admit you can’t share a fridge anymore—the magic’s gone.

Number Two: The Attempt at a Rewrite

Then came Brigitte in 1980. You know that feeling when you try to reboot your favorite show, but the new cast just isn’t clicking? Yeah, that was Bobby’s second marriage. They married fast, and they divorced even faster—just a year later.

Honestly, that one feels like the time you bought a used couch from a Facebook marketplace ad. It looked great in the photo, but it had a weird lump. Live and learn, right? Bobby probably just wanted to move on, but one year is barely enough time to finish a Netflix series together.

The Long Haul: Ricki

Now, here’s where the story gets good. In 1983, Bobby met Ricki. And for a guy who’d already struck out twice, this was like finding the last piece of pizza at a party—perfect. They got married and actually stayed married for over 30 years.

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That’s the kind of marriage that gives you hope. You imagine them sitting on the couch, watching old episodes of The Partridge Family and laughing about his old hair. He even became a reserve police officer and a firefighter. Talk about a man who needed a stable gig after all that applause.

Ricki and Bobby had two sons, and it felt like he finally got the script right. But then, in 2019, Bobby Sherman passed away. And that’s the part that makes you nod quietly. Because love takes time, and sometimes it takes three tries to find your co-pilot.

So, What’s the Final Count?

Let’s do the math. Bobby Sherman was married three times. That’s not crazy. That’s like the average number of times you change your major in college. He went from Patti (eight years) to Brigitte (one awkward year) to Ricki (three decades of real partnership).

If you ask me, that final marriage was the golden ticket. The first two were just dress rehearsals. You know how when you bake a cake, the first one always comes out a little dry? That’s marriage number one. Number two is when you forget the eggs. Number three is when you finally get the recipe bookmarked.

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What This Means for Us Normal Folks

Here’s the thing: Bobby Sherman wasn’t just a teen idol. He was a guy who had to figure out love like the rest of us. He had a fan club and a TV career, but he still had to learn that cohabitation isn’t a photo shoot. It’s messy. It’s like trying to assemble IKEA furniture with a hangover—frustrating and full of leftover screws.

But three marriages doesn’t mean he didn’t know what he was doing. It means he was trying. And isn’t that the story of all our lives? We fumble, we divorce, we remarry, we cash in the 401k for a honeymoon in Hawaii. Bobby Sherman did it with more hair and a lot more groupies, but the heart of it is the same.

So next time you’re scrolling through your uncle’s Facebook photos and see a blurry shot of Bobby Sherman in a tux, just nod. He was married three times. He loved, he lost, he got it right. And he probably never once argued about whose turn it was to take out the trash. Or maybe he did. That’s the part that makes him human.

Three weddings, one legend, and a lifetime of learning. That’s a story we can all raise a glass to—preferably without a wedding cake on the table.